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Mindful New Year

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Taken from Mindful, Healthy Mind, Health Life, here are a few tips to spark your resolutions with passion, not pressure.

 

Recognize a yearning for change

You are the one who already has what you need to start making changes in your life.  Only you can make it happen.

Engage all your resources

Learn to tune into your body, thoughts, and become friendly with your emotions.  This helps develop our inner resources that we can use to create a feeling of stability.

Slow Down

Impatience can be a tremendous drain on your motivations.  Learn as you go.  Adopt a relaxed pace to explore and learn what you are experiencing.

Open up to what matters to you

Let yourself feel why this is worth the effort. Recall that you chose this route because you were determined to grow your resolve. Return to this initial inspiration whenever you need a boost of motivation.

Learn to make allies of your obstacles

Sometimes the greatest obstacle is the fear of change itself. Awareness will feed our resolve.

Value your efforts

All will serve to strengthen your ability to trust yourself and your ability to stand up for what you want.

Enjoy the journey

Learn to adapt your route as your resolve propels you forward. The curve balls and surprises are what make life such a titillating adventure.

Full Article: https://www.mindful.org/inner-wisdom-you-say-you-want-a-resolution/

Blond-It’s Favorite Self-Help Books

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Blond-it’s Favorite Self-Help Books

We all need a bit of help at some time in our busy hectic life,(even if it’s just from a book). Self-help books can be the key that opens your whole world up to new possibilities. Feel like you don’t have time for these types of books? Set a goal to read one a month, or join a book club that focuses on reading and discussing self-help books. Or better yet, start your own book club. We have we’ve curated the best self-help books on the market right now for you to add to your bookshelf.

1. YOU ARE A BADASS -By Jen SinceroWell, the name should send a message already. This is the type of book that gives a more in-depth definition of the, “if you believe it, it will happen” juju thing but in a more modern way. In this refreshingly blunt how-to guide, Sincero, serves up 27 bite-sized chapters full of hilariously inspiring stories, life-changing insights, easy exercises and the occasional swear word. https://jensincero.com/

2. FEELING GOOD: THE NEW MOOD THERAPY -By David D. BurnsThis book explains the idea of people seeing the world through a lens of their own, and but simply adjusting that lens means you will be improving how you feel, and how you look at situations. It is essential to know that you can’t control what other people do, but you can only control how you react to it.

3. THE CREATIVE HABIT-By Twyla TharpThis bookis not merely a look inside the life of a remarkable woman with remarkable skills, but a practical, inspiring and encouraging guide to help each of us hone our craft, cultivate our genius and overcome our fears in order to achieve our fullest creative potential.The author, Twyla Tharp,is a world-famous choreographer. The whole book is beautifully designed, and the content is unique and intelligent.

4. BRAVING THE WILDERNESS: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone –By Brené BrownThis New York Times bestseller challenges everything we think we know about cultivating true belonging in our communities, organizations, and culture. “True belonging doesn’t require us to change who we are. It requires us to be who we are.”Social scientist Brene Brown, PhD, LMSW, has sparked a global conversation about the experiences that bring meaning to our lives–experiences of courage, vulnerability, love, belonging, shame, and empathy. InBraving the Wilderness,Brown redefines what it means to truly belong in an age of increased polarization. With her trademark mix of research, storytelling, and honesty, Brown will again change the cultural conversation while mapping a clear path to true belonging.

5. WABI SABI FOR ARTISTS, DESIGNERS, POETS & PHILOSOPHERS -By Leonard Koren The book describes the principles of wabi-sabi, a Japanese aesthetic associated with Japanese tea ceremonies and based on the belief that true beauty comes from imperfection and incompletion, through text and photographs.”Wabi-sabi is exactly about the delicate balance between the pleasure we get from things and the pleasure we get from freedom from things.”

Blond-It’s Best Of Plastic Surgeon

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When considering aesthetic surgery, your outcome and recovery depend on choosing the most experienced, credentialed, and skilled physician possible. Anthony N. LaBruna M.D., F.A.C.S., is a board-certified plastic surgeon who has been providing cosmetic and reconstructive surgery as well as non-surgical aesthetic procedures in the New York City area for more than 14 years.

As Featured in Top Plastic Surgeons – Consumer Research Council of America As Director of Manhattan Plastic Surgery, a full-service, private outpatient surgical center, Dr. LaBruna offers a comprehensive range of cosmetic procedures to enhance the face and body, including laser resurfacing, rhinoplasty, breast and eyelid surgery, face lifts, body contouring and more.

Dr. LaBruna achieves beautiful, natural-looking results with the quickest recovery possible, and he wants prospective patients to be active, informed participants in every procedure he oversees.

Location: 45 E. 85th St. Suite 1AB, New York, NY 10028

Blond-It’s Must Know Oral Surgeon

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As Manhattan’s leading oral and maxillofacial surgeon, with more than 25 years of experience, Dr. Gary Ruth is a pioneer in oral surgery techniques used around the world.

Dr. Ruth performed his undergraduate studies at the University of Washington, where he went on to earn his Doctorate of Dental Surgery. After his third year as an undergraduate, he was awarded a biomedical research grant, which allowed him to conduct extensive cancer research. Dr. Ruth held a general practice residency at the Veterans Administration Medical Center in affiliation with Case Western Reserve University in Cleveland, Ohio.

Dr. Ruth continued his training with a residency at New York Hospital Cornell Medical Center before establishing his Manhattan-based private practice in 1986. He has lectured extensively around the world, held teaching positions at New York University Dental School and is currently an attending surgeon at Mt. Sinai Medical Center.

Located: 30 Central Park South, Suite 5C New York, NY 10019

Blond-It’s Best Builder For The Ultimate Custom Home

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Twenty-five years ago Joe Farrell left a successful career on Wall Street for the magic and allure of the East End. With his passion and business acumen, he revolutionized the building process and built the Farrell brand. Now, when driving in the Hamptons, it is difficult to miss the iconic blue and white signs of Farrell Building Co.

In 1995 a Hamptons brand was built. For over 20 years, Joe and his team of experts at Farrell Building Co. have constructed the quintessential Hamptons home. The driving philosophy is to view time as a commodity: no one has enough of it and all of us want to enjoy it. If it takes a certain number of man hours to design and build a home, why not do it as efficiently as possible? A Farrell Signature Spec Home is designed and built in under a year. That same process is applied to a custom home. Over 400 Farrell clients would agree: no one wants to miss a summer weekend.

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Blond-it – How To Set A New Year’s Intention

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The best period to reflect on everything you’ve learned about yourself in the past year is the
beginning of the new year. This is the best time to decide on how you want to grow in the New
Year, and instead of following the crowd of people who set resolutions that can quickly come
and go, it is advisable that you set intentions that will help improve and be the best version of
yourself. Doing this will help you prioritize what’s most important, focus your mind, and start
making transformations within yourself. Setting intentions gives us the purpose of carrying on
even when we lose sight of our purpose. Concentrate on your heart and what’s important to you
creates clarity and self-discovery.
Here a few tips for deciding on your intentions in this New Year:

  1. Self-compassion
    Self-compassion is no doubt an appropriate intention. Self-compassion helps us remember that
    we are merely doing the best we can and our flaws make us relatable evem when we go down
    the rabbit hole of shaming. Doing this every time we are faced with one or two challenges we
    will be ready to embrace all that is good and inspire us to face the coming months.
  2. Drop the negative self-talk
    Negative self-talk is exhausting. self-compassion practices, mindfulness loving kindness, and
    having a healthy sense of humor, can help us avoid the negative stories and see the bigger
    picture.
  3. Connect with the elements of your life
    Connecting with the elements of your life tend to bring along the greatest joy, energy, and
    satisfaction. Do you listen to your own inner voice? If not ask yourself what exactly gives me
    passion and feel with a sense of purpose? Ask yourself this question, take your time to listen to
    that inner voice that connects you to truth and deeper meaning. Everyone deserve to live a life
    that has purpose and connects us to the world we want to live.
  4. Make a list and share with people that can hold you accountable
    Find someone supportive in your circle and share your list of intentions with them. Do something
    today to help you demonstrate your commitment to your intention.
    • What is going right in your life? What are you passionate about?
    • What do you want to cultivate more of in your life?
    • What seems to be working well?
    • What is not going right and how can you make changes?
  5. Make alone time a priority
    There is a saying that says “money can’t buy happiness.” This is relatively true as most material
    things do not exactly bring us happiness. However, taking time alone to cultivate your
    relationship with yourself is key to find who you are and find inner peace.